Brown Zaftig 4 LTR I am NOT looking for ONLY ---. What I AM looking for is a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP with someone that I desire and desires me. I would like to get to know someone, and date with an intention on having a long term relationship. I date outside of my race because those are the people I have been raised around, the schools I attended and the friends that I have.
I have small children. My son is 6 and my daughter is 1. They are my world and everybody comes before them. I share custody with my ex however it seems I’m the one who has them the majority of the time. I would appreciate being with someone who also has children, likes children and doesn’t want any or anymore .They are the first thing I think about when making major decisions. I am very protective of my children and I will not have them meet anyone unless it becomes a serious relationship.
I am very picky when it comes to what I am looking for in a man because that is what I deserve and I demand to be treated like a woman, a special woman. I am a one woman man and expect you to be a one man woman. I appreciate, humor, honesty, ambition, a man who is completely grounded and confident. I LOVE a man who can cook as well as someone handy because I can’t do either of those things!!
PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES:
I love tall men!! The taller the better!! I like wearing heels so when that happens I can easily push 6’ tall. Of course if you don’t mind then I won’t mind! I do prefer SEXY established men between 35-50 y/o salt n pepper hair or someone bald.
I also prefer Divorced WHITE male. A man who has been there before and has learned from their mistakes and wishes to start over the right way. I would like it if he had kids as well. However I will not be limited to someone because of their race, status or if he is an animal lover or not!! I am just looking for THE ONE, MY HERO, my Knight in Shining Amour ? I’m so cliché!!
Zaftig4ltr, 53
currently offline
Chicago, IL, USA
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Brown Zaftig 4 LTR
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'08"
Body Type
thick, voluptuous
Movies
comedy, romantic comedy, drama, action, horror, romance, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
black
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
post-Graduate
Profession
Other
Income level
$50,000-$100,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink
I currently live
with kids
Socially, I am
flirt, social butterfly, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
conservative
Food Related
Diet Every Now & Then, Fine Dining, Sushi, Fast Food, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Chocoholic
Personality
conservative, fun loving, professional, fashionista, lover, flirt, romantic, intellectual
Individuality
tattoos, cougar, piercings
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual, Not Religious
I'm looking for
relationship, romance, the yin to my yang, dating, something interesting, soulmate, mr. right
My Sign
aquarius : jan. 20-feb. 18
Pets
Dog, Cats
Gender
Female
Music
R and B, Pop, Opera, Jazz, House, Dance, Classical, Alternative Rock
Fitness & Sports
yoga, aerobics, dancing, walking, jogging, working out
Health Related
minor health issues, herbalism, challenging dietary issues, alternative medicine
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