Socaljay78, 47

I am honest, open and I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am a knowledge HOUND and truly enjoy learning as much as I can that involves world cultures, traditions, foods, history, geography, etc. I am a night owl, due to my work, but not necessarily by choice. My schedule basically has me up at 3pm, working the hours of 7pm to 6am. That leaves me little free time to meet people, and even less time to meet a genuine woman. I have 3 children who are my reason for living; my reason for taking a job I don't much care for and my reason for waking each day. I am looking for a woman - specifically a reason to smile; a reason to have a spring in my step... I know that sounds corny, but I have been labeled and also consider myself as a romantic. Not in the traditional sense, but definitely in my heart and soul. I honestly consider ALL women to be a benefit and a blessing in life, and are to be regarded as princesses and queens. I tend to spoil the ones I care for, (ridiculously) and as I write this, I can see how that hindered my past relationships. I believe women SHOULD be spoiled, however I have yet to find someone that understands that it's a DESIRE I have to show my love, not a requisite to continue a relationship... (does that make ANY sense?)