Singlemama0912, 37

Single MaMa of 2...looking for love that will last I am a single mother of a 3yo boy and 11wk old girl. I'm divorced. I know exactly what I'm looking for in a partner. I'm NOT looking for a one-night stand. I'm ready to settle down. Now, with that being said, I'm NOT looking to rush into anything either. I want to date for awhile. I do NOT want any more kids. I am looking for someone with a great personality, funny, caring, loving, kind, willing to accept me and my kids as his own. I prefer him to have kids of his own since I DON'T want anymore. I would like for him to be between the ages of 25-30. He MUST work and have his OWN transportation. There's times I don't mind paying my own way but I don't want it to be expected of me to do so--be a GENTLEMAN and at least offer to pay. It can't be a one way street...you have to be willing to come see me as well. NO LIARS OR CHEATERS!!!! Communication is key to EVERY relationship so you have to be able to communicate things with my openly and honestly. Do NOT be afraid of hurting my feelings--if you are mad or upset with me...TELL ME! Otherwise, I will never be able to correct the problem. I've been hurt in the past and I have experience trauma and this plays a HUGE role in my life. Even though it's in the past-it's something I must live with everyday. If you cannot be understanding of this--don't waste my time or yours. S-- is NOT all there is to a relationship so please don't think it is. When you make it all about that I turn away real quick! YOU'VE BEEN WARNED! Take the good with the bad and work through it all. We all have our pros and cons...the one that makes me feel I'm worth the effort is the one for me. I will fight to make my relationships last but I can't be the only one fighting.