Santaclaragirl, 55

Seek LTR with someone from the South Bay with compatible personality and lifestyle.

I'm usually outgoing and flirty and can work a room, yet am dedicated in relationships and seek same. I have an affectionate nature, cat-like blue eyes and a nice physique.

I have a business degree from UC Santa Barbara and a high tech career. Insightful conversation intrigues me; I am open minded to different ways of seeing things. I like to ask open ended questions to see how people respond and am up for a debate-like conversation where we play devil's advocate for the sake of an interesting conversation.

I've always been sensible with money and would like to date someone who keeps up with me financially. I seek a companion who enjoys making a lot of what life has to offer. But I'm not an 'always on' person nor do I seek one. I also enjoy relaxing on the weekends; some down time can bear the fondest moments. I've owned my home 12 years and have done a lot of projects including tiling a granite countertop.

Are you adventurous in spirit like I am? I've been fortunate to have done some traveling including Australia, Bali and Thailand. From B&B's to vacation rentals, the beach to the ski slopes, I love to travel!

In college I played Ultimate Frisbee (we were national champions). I'm actually naturally muscular, but not a fitness freak. I care for my health. I run with my Australian Sheppard. She is a sweetheart and great at following signals- I can get her to play on a playground (slide and all). I thought she's be a frisbee dog, but ironically, isn't remotely interested.

Family is really important to me. I have a seven year old daughter who is so bright and charming. She is with me about half the time. I only mention her last because I believe in having an identity beyond your children. She is easy to love.

I log on sporatically, so please don't be offended if I take a long time to respond.