Natashialou, 43

In all of lifes hardships, it is harder to raise your children unhappy and not alone, then to raise them alone and happy. I have spent a good chunck of my time and effort trying to find real love in my recent 5 year relationship. It not only didn't work, it couldn't, due to it was only onsided family wise. I'm not to much into looks as long as you don't scare babies in a mere glance, but you do have to hold a conversation and not only love to listen but talk alot also. Jobs are difficult to find now adays and I have a pretty decent career so if I meet someone and they work hard, and work everyday then it doesn't matter if you shovel cow poop or write books, work is work to make a family survive. Personality is something unique unto us all, and you could be either a smartass or a reserved realist, as long as you have something that defines you, is all that matters. I believe strongly that a family is whats most important, and that a man and a women are the back bone and support of that. I am very easy going and love to laugh, especially when my children do the craziest things. I want more kids one day, but if the 2 preciouse gems are all I end up with for the reast of my life, I can handle that