Jayb345, 43

I'm a 30 year old guy, single, financially independent and stable, working in Toronto for the last 3 years as IT Analyst for one of the largest banks in Canada. Previously worked in England for some time. I'm not keen on having my own biological Children. I like kids for similar reasons that a lot of people like them for, in any case I can be responsible enough not to let them down. Looking for a widowed/ divorced/separated woman of around my age or younger and having a kid or two. I'm a Hindu by birth, but not a very religious person, I'd like to visit Church too. Am from India and like to settle down in Canada through the highly skilled worker formalities. I earn about 66K per annum (mentioning here just to support my claim that I'm financially independent). I grew up believing in Marriage and long term relationships and still believe in those institutions. At the same time, I also appreciate other alternatives to marriage like conjugal partner/ living separately (committed though) etc.. depending on the girl's circumstances and opinions. It works great especially if the kids are very young babies or toddlers..I usually like being around them...

Looking for a girl who's reasonably financially independent. I would say, give it a try, get started without any expectations of this culminating into anything serious, and see how far we can go. I like being in a relationship where we both look forward to each other's company, even if it means living under separate roofs - just a thought. I like contributing, being in a relationship where my presence brings about happiness..and I feel happy too..
Am an average guy in terms of looks, so may not be able to make a great first impression, at the same time, I believe there are some of my attributes, that are likeable and it takes a while for people to appreciate what I'm about. If you don't see my photographs here, I can send them on email.