Alpd, 52

Not Desperate, but looking I am a 36-year-old woman who is very family oriented. I have three children (19, 17, and 5). My grandfather also lives with me and I care for him 24/7. He has Alzheimer's and cannot walk due to arthritis. They define who I am. I am a Christian, although I haven't been to church in a couple of years. I enjoy spending time with family, and my hobbies include cross stitching and plastic canvas. I am studying medical transcription, although my ultimate goal is to become a wound care nurse. I have been widowed for just over a year, and want to find a long term relationship that will start out slow. I am a nonsmoker and nondrinker, and I only date within my race. NO OFFENSE. This is my preference and do not judge others for doing so. I am looking for someone who treats others the way he wants to be treated. He must be family oriented and preferably nonsmoker and nondrinker. I cannot have anymore children. So this person should not want anymore children himself. He needs to be confident in himself and be a hardworker. Not rich, just a hardworker. I am very honest about my life and my feelings, and I expect the same from someone else.